Wellbeing Service


Wellbeing Service

ASUK Wellbeing Service

Your Mental Health and Rare Diseases 

It shouldn’t be underestimated the impact that a diagnosis of a rare condition can have on our physical, mental and emotional health.

ASUK developed a survey at the end of 2023 to try and understand what the AS community knew about mental health, and how ASUK could support their wellbeing. Comments in the survey showed that people diagnosed with AS have experienced feeling low and isolated, this was especially relevant in lock down during the Pandemic. The survey illustrated that people believed that maintaining their wellbeing was important, with over 80% rating its importance over five out of ten.

“I also wanted to say, how lovely it was to speak with Melissa the other day!
Speaking to someone doing so well that has Alström was just amazing. More of that would be wonderful.
I genuinely am thankful that we have Alström UK, what would we do without you.” (Parent)

With this need in mind, ASUK are piloting a new ‘Wellbeing Service’ where we will develop 1-1 and group wellbeing sessions, webinar sessions for the global community, round table discussions prior to the AS multi-disciplinary clinics and signpost to relevant local organisations for families and individuals to reach out to, as well as wellbeing resources and top tips.

Melissa Crowland will be our Wellbeing Coordinator, with her extensive lived experience and knowledge she will be an asset to the ASUK team.

Courageous Conversations

The film below is from the ASUK conference in 2024 where Melissa gives an insightful presentation about her role, the service and some insights into courageous conversations, talking to children and young people about their wellbeing and some coping strategies to try.

What a great presentation by Melissa Crowland!

Listening right now I found it to be very professional and also underpinned with a sensitivity that only comes from personal experience. I thought it was informative, encouraging and empowering for both individuals and their families. As she talks about the importance of talking about our feelings in courageous conversations she acknowledges how difficult a step this can be for some. And she highlights the importance of listening carefully during these conversations, whether the listener is a relative, friend, teacher or health professional. She also offers very useful practical examples of tips strategies which may be beneficial as well. She ends the presentation with a beautiful positive meditation that I found very uplifting and calming. I highly recommend watching and sharing this. 

Quote from a YouTube viewer

Connecting Together

As part of the Wellbeing Service, we aim to meet online on the last Thursday of each month to bring the AS Global community together and discuss topics around how to look after our mental health. After the sessions, we will bring together a fact sheet, top tips and the recording from the session which you will find in this area of the website.

We are here for you

Please feel free to get in touch with Melissa, who can discuss ways she can support you on your journey.

Email Melissa on melissa.crowland@alstrom.org.uk

Telephone Melissa on 07301078059

Please note that Melissa works part-time on a Wednesday and Friday.

Welcome to Wellbeing

Remember

Mental Health Conditions
don’t discriminate.

They can happen to
anyone,
anywhere, anytime.

 

What is wellbeing?

“The state of being comfortable, healthy or happy”
(Public Health. 2018).

Don’t worry if you missed the session, you can catch up with the recording below and download the presentationWelcome to Wellbeing 

We have also developed an introduction to Mental Health Factsheet Factsheet 02 Mental Health Health

The data behind the headlines

Research published in 2022 by Rare Disease UK reports that more than 90% of study respondents felt anxious, stressed or depressed due to their rare condition, and that 36% of patients and 19% of carers had experienced suicidal thoughts. You can view the report by Rare Disease UK HERE

With many rare conditions often being complex, it not only has an impact on those affected but also on the wider family members too.

Study conducted by Spenser Tansley Et Al 2022

  • Questionnaire of over 1200 people living with a rare condition and over 560 carers
  • Investigating how having a rare disease impacted on an individual’s mental health
  • 90% stated that they felt; anxious, depressed, stressed or worried
  • 36% of individuals with the condition and 19% of carers stated that they wanted to end their life
  • 23% of participants stated that the health care practitioners facilitated conversations about mental health including sign posting to services
  • 1/2 of participants stated that mental health wasn’t mentioned at all in their health care appointments
  • 88% stated that they had negatively been impacted by their interactions with health care professionals

Recommendations

  • Need for more mental health interventions for those being impacted by rare disease and relevant signposting.

All About Anxiety

What is Anxiety?

A constant fear, worry or stress that interferes with your everyday life.

Remember

Anxiety doesn’t discriminate.

Feeling anxious can happen to
anyone, anywhere, anytime.

Some of the figures:

  • In 2020 62% of people Worldwide stated that they experienced some form of Anxiety.
  • Since the pandemic the number of people Worldwide who have experienced Anxiety rose by 25% to 301 million. (58% are children and young people).
  • Women are more likely to experience an Anxiety Disorder 63% worldwide.
  • Specific Phobia Disorder is the most common type of Anxiety Disorder, affecting over 19 million people in the US.
  • In the UK, a little over 1 in 10 of us will be living with an anxiety disorder at any one time – that is over 8 million people.

Don’t worry if you missed the recent webinar session, you can catch up with the recording below and download the presentation: Wellbeing Webinar All About Anxiety Presentation

We have also brought together a Factsheet for you to download Factsheet 01 All About Anxiety

Mental Health and the Road to Independence

In this section, Melissa gives an introduction into mental health, our wellbeing and why our own independence or lack of it, can have an impact n our mental health.

This film is from the AS Global Conference – Mental Health and the Road to Independence.

Accepting and Connecting

In this film from the AS Global conference, you can hear from Marina, from AS Italy shares with us her experience of her Daughter receiving a diagnosis of Alström Syndrome and how this felt.

Marina shares her family journey of acceptance and resilience.

She encourages everyone to be the change they want to see.

Hear her top tips and uplifting quotes and phrases she has picked up along the way.

In this section you will find short videos, bringing together a range of techniques for you to try to help you, when feeling anxious, or when negative thoughts and feelings creep into your life.

We’ve brought a range of different techniques, so have a listen to all of them, as some you may prefer more than others…

The first one is the Love and Kindness, Breathing Meditation

The next one to listen to, is a Grounding Technique

The next session to bring you is all about a technique called 4 x 4 breathing and helps us control our emotions and breathing when we are feeling anxious and may be panicky and feeling out of control.

The next session is called the 4W’s 

The next one is a Tranquil Body Scan!

Creative Ways to Positive Wellbeing

In this section we talk about creative ways that we can promote our own wellbeing and methods that you can do anywhere, and don’t cost anything.

Enforcing positive mental health should be affordable and accessible for everyone, which is something that ASUK always champions.

Metawriting

Today’s article focuses on a technique called Metawriting.

 

A way of focusing on your thoughts, feelings and emotions that can truly work for you.

Metawriting is described as writing, either creatively or in an autobiographical way to help the writer navigate thoughts, feelings and emotions which may be difficult to verbalise.

Sometimes negative thoughts can become overwhelming, as the thought gets louder and louder, and bigger and bigger in our head, becoming all consuming.

A way of taking back control of our thinking, is writing and journaling. It can be a great way to work through any feelings you may be having before you talk to someone about it.
Using writing for therapy is also useful, as it gives you the space to decide what you talk about and process your thoughts, feelings and emotions about any given event. It’s up to you whether you write non-fiction or a poem or story that documents how you are feeling.

People who are already receiving therapy can use journaling to record how they feel after their session has ended. This allows them to develop insights into themselves and can help them reflect on the work they have done so far.

However you choose to offload, metawriting can be a real way of getting your thoughts, feelings and emotions, down in a way that echoes your innermost narrative. Whether you’re young, old or in between you can adapt exercises to work for yourself or your child.

Below is a poem Melissa wrote when she was struggling with negative emotions.

“I wanted to write a note to myself to remind me it was okay not to feel okay.”

It’s ok not to be okay

I know today’s been hard
And your inner light is dim
And your heart lies in broken pieces
Trapped deep beneath your skin.
I know your roads been tough
But you’ve walked it straight and true
Think of all the lights that shine,
And switch their brightness onto you.
Right now your blue skies turned grey
You’re scared you’re hurt you’re angry
But tomorrow is a new day
You’re safe with me my friend
Just remember in the end
It’s okay not to be okay.
I know that life has been unfair
What it’s done to you’s not nice
But if you turn your face to the wall
What was the point of that sacrifice?
I know you want to cry
To throw things, scream and shout
But I’m your friend, I’m here for you
Let all your feelings out.
Right now your blue skies turned grey
You’re scared you’re hurt you’re angry
But tomorrow is a new day
I am here for you my friend
But remember in the end
It’s okay not to be okay.

If you would like to learn more about how creative writing or journaling can work for you or a loved one. Please get in touch with our Wellbeing Coordinator, Melissa by email or phone. So that she can support you in your journey.

Email: Melissa.crowland@alstrom.org.uk
Tel: 07301 078059
Please note Melissa works part-time on a Wednesday and Friday.

Useful Apps

The charity Mind have developed a App Library of their trusted Apps.
It covers a huge range of different conditions; including mental and physical health.

We have brought together some Apps below – some are free and some are paid for, but many have free trials so you can see if you like them first.

Head Space

Offers meditation and sleep resources, it is a paid App but it does offer free trails

My Possible Self

Has interactive tools, helpful tips, and engaging activities to help you take care of your mental health. There are lots of meditation activities to help boost your mood and clear your busy mind, and interactive content to help you explore things that can influence your mental health. (free App)

Medotopia

Is a useful mindfulness meditation program
(paid App with free trials available)

Sleep sounds

App of sounds to help you sleep

The Mindfulness Ap

Presently

This is a daily gratitude journal

Slumber 

Relaxing bedtime sleep stories

You will find below a range of organisations who can offer a range of support, resources and services:

Mind

Mind offer support and information including useful guides on support and services available, you can view these here.

Young Minds

The charity Young Minds offer support and information for young people experiencing mental health challenges and their parents. They offer guides around support which can be found here as well as a beginner’s guide to the NHS’s Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) for young people and parents, this guide can be viewed here.

RareMinds

RareMinds offer a Wellbeing Hub of resources and information.

Counselling Directory

The Counselling Directory enables you to find a suitable counsellor, and they are dedicated to making the process as simple as possible, providing individuals in need with all of the information they require to make the most well informed decisions. Counselling Directory aims to be the leading service for providing counselling advice and information – connecting those in distress with the largest support network in the UK. They understand how important it is to find the right counsellor, the one that is exactly suited to your individual situation, have a look on their website for further information of the counselling services available in your local area, as a general rule counsellors with more experience will be accredited with the BACP.

SUPPORT AND EMERGENCY CONTACTS

If you feel overwhelmed, or you want to hurt yourself or someone else, you can:

Text SHOUT to 85258 to contact Shout’s textline

Call HOPELINEUK on 0800 068 4141 or the NHS on 111 and select option 2

Contact Childline by using 1-2-1 chat or calling 0800 1111

 

If you feel like you may try to attempt suicide, or you or someone else is seriously hurt, this is an emergency. You should:

Call 999 and ask for an ambulance.

Tell an adult you trust and ask them to call 999 for help.